Mostly you are an avatar, paid off to battle, height, weight and a position that is sexual. You're a thumbnail photo in a casino game which can be because crude if you let it as it is brutal on your self-esteem.
I have stopped allowing the racial feedback I've seen on apps, or received while standing in a club, get to me. "Not into Asians", or the absurdly comical "No rice". It reminds me for the graffiti I grew up with: "Asians Out".
Often however, the opinions catch you by stealth.