Deborah i will be a female (age 56) and I also genuinely believe that my personality fits the description of NPD to a tee. This has taken me a lot of failed relationships (very painful) to realizeвЂ¦hey, it might you need to be me personally that is ill rather than them.
My many current loss ended up being compared to my ex spouse (after 19 many years of marriage)вЂ¦because element of my MO would be to incur financial obligation without telling him. He finally learned 1 day, aided bail me personally out countless times, and every time it eroded their love/trust a small further. We kept saying to myselfвЂ¦it had been HE who had been causing us to head out and spend cash because he wasnвЂ™t giving me enough attention that we didnвЂ™t have. Well, BS. we've been divorced for just two years, and imagine whatвЂ¦I have always been EVEN carrying it out. Therefore, my lies and deception have there been all alongвЂ¦before him and from now on after him. But, in my opinion it may never be far too late for me personally. I've owned as much as this crap and have always been now desperately wanting to look for assistance for myself.